May 20, 2021

Believing that you better grab a piece of the pie

One of the most common "screw-ups" when it comes to the successful use of the Law of Attraction is believing in scarcity. Believing that you better grab a piece of the pie because there is only one pie and that is not enough for everybody!It starts as a young child, wholesale conical twin screw barrel suppliers especially if you have siblings. Your parents' bring out the dessert, everyone grabs and then it is gone. It is at that moment fear steps in and the thought comes..."What if I don't grab soon enough? I won't get any dessert.
There will not be enough for me." That "scarcity thought" comes over and over again. Your best friend gets a wonderful boyfriend and somewhere inside you think, "Bummer, now there won't be enough good boyfriends for me." Our culture is set up with a scarcity mind-set. That is what advertising is all about, making us feel like there isn't enough so we need to run out and buy while we can. Many of us feel resentment towards those more successful then us. There is the feeling that because they have we can't have. It is all used up.Keeping this mindset will make sure that we attract more lack, more scarcity. When we focus on what we don't have we get more "don't have." Let's stop this craziness and create a mindset of abundance.How do you create a belief of abundance? Begin by simply being grateful. Look around you and notice what you are thankful for. Look inside you and be grateful for all you are, for the amazing body that you have. Everyday have an attitude of thankfulness. Often the workplace can be a place of scarcity. People are afraid to help coworkers too much for fear of losing their competitive edge. "If I tell others what I do to be successful then they will do it and there is not enough success to go around!" The fact is there is plenty of success to go around. We get ahead by cooperating and building networks of people who help each other get ahead. Look around at work. How can you be helpful to your coworkers? How can you demonstrate an abundance mindset? Then watch how you feel as you give freely. You may feel a poke of fear as if you are "giving away the farm."
Just observe that feeling and then remind yourself that the Universe is abundant and always creating new opportunities.The definition of the Law of Attraction is: "You get what you think about." More clearly stated, "You get what you feel about." What if everyone is feeling great things about money? (They aren't but let's just pretend!) Would we have a scarcity of money? No! The Universe is abundant and with that focus more would be created. Play with this idea... There is enough of everything you want. Rejoice whenever you see success and realize that there is plenty more where that came from. When you see someone richer then you, more successful then you, more...whatever, take a minute to think or if you are brave enough say it out loud, "Thank you for your success because you are showing me that I can do that to.

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May 12, 2021

Every day we all see people with average abilities

Nothing, nothing at all, will screw you up more than putting off until tomorrow the important things you know must be done today. If "Tomorrow", "I meant to get it done", "I have so many other things to do"," When does it have to be done", "It is never too late", "I need more information - facts - statistics", "It has to be perfect", " I am afraid it will not be good enough" blah, blah, blah, are part of your own internal communications, you are a wholesale bimetallic barrel procrastinator, and you will not succeed to the extent your abilities, personal and technical skill sets, education and energy would otherwise allow you to succeed.
Every day we all see people with average abilities and education and all the other measures we use to qualify our fellow human beings, succeeding while other much more "qualified" people stay in place, or slide back, or make less progress than the less endowed.What's the difference? Procrastination is a major culprit -in fact ' the major culprit. It may be caused by the usual culprits. Fear, perfectionism, conflicting priorities, confusing busy with effective, placing importance on the wrong things. In every case, the result is performance that doesn't meet expectations.I suggest that the successful live in today, and procrastinators live in yesterday and tomorrow - today is the bridge backward or forward for procrastinators.Remember the song in Annie - the movie and the Broadway play. "The sun will come up tomorrow -------". The saying "Tomorrow is another day". The thought - "It's never too late". All of those phrases are very encouraging, very comforting. They mean there is hope - if it wasn't done today, well, there's always tomorrow.The truth is there may not be a tomorrow - it might very well be too late. The sun may not come up tomorrow. And what's wrong with today, anyway? Maybe a more accurate truth is the saying " He who hesitates is lost." That's the truth.Procrastinators are time optimists - they rationalize not getting things done by telling themselves there is always tomorrow. In doing that they rob themselves of today. And today becomes another day of frustration and the accomplishment of thin things.
Make no mistake, most procrastinators are very busy and may be the people who work more hours than any others. But they aren't effective. And they usually get the fewest critical opportunities to accomplish important things, because of the low level of trust others have in their performing on a timely basis.So what can be done about this truly destructive behavior that afflicts millions of people, and impacts success in every business?The toughest issue with procrastination, in its many forms, is that it's a habit of thought . It does not respond well to surgery, or the purchase of books, CD's and other materials stuffed with hope and revelations and epiphanies. This is the true challenge - to replace the Tomorrow habit of thought with another habit- one that creates a Today habit of thought.But the only way to do it is through action.

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